09
Dec
2007
Posted by todd in Personal Growth
Most adults go through life with an almost constant Fear of Failure. Which is kind of ironic actually, since learning how to fail is almost a Requirement for eventually becoming Successful.
How often have any of us experienced set-backs which at the time, seem like the end of the world, but in actuality are often the stepping stones to the things we really want.
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Here are 3 reasons why failure can actually be a good thing …
I know, I know, that sounds totally counterintuitive. But think about it, when you’re trying something for the 3rd, 4th or even 100th time, “I intend to succeed This Time” can actually be a pretty strong motivator.
Let’s face it, we all have times where our heads get a little to big for our own good. A small failure here and there can serve as a very useful breaking mechanism to bring us back down to earth.
When you were a little kid, how did you learn to walk? Did you just climb out of your crib one day and stroll across the bedroom floor? If so, I’m very impressed. But most of us learned to walk by falling flat on our faces … numerous times. We pulled ourselves up, took a step, and fell right down. But, since we were babies and didn’t know any better, we just got right back up and tried again; until we could take two steps, then three, then ten … with many falls in between.
As adults, it’s very easy to forget the lessons of our childhood. Too often we view our “falls” as setbacks, rather the absolutely necessary steps on the road to success that they are.
If so, Congratulations!
Keep havin FuN!
Todd
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December 9th, 2007 at 3:43 pm
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Rose
December 12th, 2007 at 1:48 am
2Why yes I did. I failed to get high score in burger time.
Great post on failure. Some people can not accept failure.
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todd
December 12th, 2007 at 6:50 am
3Hi Rose,
Thanks for the feedback. lol, what is burger time?
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December 16th, 2007 at 10:47 pm
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December 24th, 2007 at 3:36 am
5Lord have mercy! You’ve got a great blog, and this was a great post, and your post “10 Laws of Leadership” really hit home.
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2008 is going to bring SuccessWithTodd.com a lot of success. That I know. I’d put money on it.
Keep up the great work.
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todd
December 24th, 2007 at 9:57 pm
6Thanks for the kind words … I appreciate you.
Luke
March 24th, 2008 at 10:46 pm
7Absolutely true, Todd. Failing and being a failure are totally different. If you learn from it, it’s not truly a failure.
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todd
March 26th, 2008 at 7:17 am
8Hey Luke,
Thanks for stopping by. You hit the nail on the head … learning is the key … and “messing stuff up” is one of the more memorable ways to learn.
Todd
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